I'm Alyssa and I'm turning 18 in a month. For my party I want an Arabian theme party. We have a place at the Holiday Inn hotel, but the food there is really expensive. I also can't bring food into the hotel, so I was thinking of just having family over before the party and eating at my house. Would that be weird if I did that?
By Alyssa from La Habra, CA
Go for it no-one will mind because everyone will understand hoewtight things are at the moment. They will just be happy to celebrate with you!
I f they are not happy with it why are they on the guest list. You could even start a new trend
Ayesha!
I am a mobile dj for parties and weddings. The best thing to do is to find a venue that can bring your own food. If you are going to have it at your house, you will need to cut down on your guest list and probably lower your expectations.
If you can find a hall, such as a lodge, a hotel that doesn't cater, a recreation center, or a clubhouse at an apartment complex or condo building, that will be your best bet.
When it comes to the food, you can easily do it yourself. If you are doing a full dinner, find a store like GFS Marketplace or Sam's Club. They will have trays and things you need for larger groups. BUT if you are just doing finger foods, you have more options.
My experience with teen parties, with the exception of Quinces or Sweet 16s, there's not alot of eating going on. Pizza will even work! In fact, it's hard to get the teenagers to eat. Focus more on the decor and music.
Good Luck!
I am a local party planner and specialize in creating custom themed events on a budget. For themed parties, decor is very important for setting the mood. You should really concentrate on bringing in fabrics, pillows, etc... for an Arabian style. To do food on a budget, consider doing appetizers/finger foods instead of a sit-down dinner. Stay away from more expensive items with meats like lamb or chicken skewers and instead have the hotel do platters of different flavors of hummus and pita or flatbread. Guests will enjoy trying the different flavors and because they are made of garbanzo beans, they are much less expensive than a meat appetizer.
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What is something special I could do for my boyfriend's 18th birthday?
18 is a special birthday!! Birthday blessings to your boyfriend!! He is lucky to have someone as caring as you!
An amazing birthday gift does not have to cost a fortune, but it should create a sweet memory.
What about a birthday day out adventure where you start with a breakfast somewhere, do something touristy and fun in your town, then have a little picnic in a park.
In my town, we have inclines and they are always a fun birthday treat for people of all ages. We also have river boat tours, and double decker buses that tour the city. If you live near a city, maybe you have something similar you an do.
If you don't live near the city, look for a fun and unique places that he may enjoy that are near by, but that you have never tried.
Do you have things like Painting with a Twist or Candle labs where you can make something together? That may be different if he is a creative type.
Whatever you do, enjoy!! Blessings to all!
I am turning 18 and I what to hold a non alcohol party, but it's the first party that I have every had and I don't know any good ideas for it. If you can help me please do?
I would suggest you play music that was popular the year you were born and have guests dress in the style of the day. Good for you for the no-alcohol rule!
What do you think about asking your friends to bring (or invent) non-alcoholic beverages? Hold a contest to see which is best? Music turned up loud, finger foods ...?
Happy Birthday!
I just turned 17 and I'm moving to Florida this summer. I don't know anyone there and my boyfriend can't make it down for my birthday due to it being in the middle of our last semester as seniors.
What can I do for my 18th birthday when I'm not going to know anyone or have the people I love around me to celebrate?You will be ABSOLUTELY alone?
NO family members at all around?
IF that is the case, I would look up all the things that your new area is known for and try to visit as many as possible, enjoying your new freedom and place to explore!
If at all possible, sometime that day perhaps you can Skype with your boyfriend, family and/or friends and that would be great too.
The first year my son moved across the country, we placed our computer monitor on the dining room table while we ate our Thanksgiving dinner and he and his fiance ate theirs while we chatted on Skype!! It really helped us feel the connection!
Make the best of every new situation and your life will be full of great memories! Let us know what you do!
Volunteer! Find some worthy local cause at your new location, whether it be an animal shelter, homeless shelter, soup kitchen, or even just go to the local nursing home and visit someone who also has no close family.
The rewards are great - you make someone else feel wonderful and giving of yourself makes you feel fantastic. Plus you wont be "sitting home alone" and you might even meet some really nice people.
Then when your family can get together you can still celebrate with them, cake, ice cream, and all!
My friend is turning 18 and we want to give her a surprise birthday party. The party will last about 3 hours. We are on a budget and need some ideas for what to do.
By PALak
I did a suprise 30th Birthday Party for my hubby several years ago. I made Sloppy Joes (I posted the recipe on here a while back under "Charlotte's Sloppy Joes) it was cheap, easy & good. I had family and friends bring a side dish. I bought a cake, had tea, lemonade, coffee, water, etc. Best part is Keith had no clue - we had such a good time! I hope this helps! :)
Betsy