I am getting a cat from a friend who rescues cats from assorted places. She got this girl and her sister several months ago. She is extremely friendly and is more like a dog. Long story short I am a dog lover, but can't have one due to physical limitations, but would like some company. My friend thinks I will do great with this lovely cat.
I hate to admit it, but I am still nervous even after saying I want her. I have been around a cat at work for the last 3 years and fell in love with him. I am here seeking information, anything that you can say to encourage this person recently on disability that misses work and going out.
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Trust yourself and your new fur baby. She needs you as much as you need her. She will warm up to you, and you two will be the best of friends! In a short time you will wonder why you did not get one sooner!!!
Cats can be the best company, especially if they are dog like! They are often independent, but loving on their terms. It is so therapeutic to have a warm, sentient creature around.
If you are nervous, maybe your friend can help you the first day or two to set a routine so you are comfortable with the litter cleaning and food prep.
Maybe she can help you select toys and bedding that are safe for you both...things like balls are a hazard for you, so maybe a scratching post and some soft toys like plush mice or feather wands.
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Blessings!!
It sounds like you know the cat well and have been around her for a bit now. You know if the cat is right for you or not. It is just something that you feel when you see the cat. It already sounds like you love the cat and feel that it is a good fit for you.
I have the same opinion as the other people that have responded in that it seems you already know you want the cat. I'd like to add that cats are great for reducing stress. They also provide companionship. Some of the adjustments you have to make when you experience physical limitations that alter your lifestyle is finding purpose and adjusting to a new schedule/lifestyle. Adopting a cat that will depend on you for care and love will give you purpose. Cats are also great at keeping you on schedule with feeding and they don't mind insisting you pet them or engage in interactive play with them.
You can arrange a trial period with your friend. Ill bet you wiii keep the cat.
hadnt thought of this but im sure she would because she always tells people she would rather take the cat back if a person couldnt take care of it anymore. that says she cares about the cats and the people too.
This sounds like a match made in heaven to me. Cats are wonderful company. They are not demanding (unless it is for their favorite cat food) Their workout is 20 minutes with you and their favorite wand toy.
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