I wanna ask my close friend to the school dance. I've known him since day one of 6th grade and now we're in our freshman year. I wanna know if I should ask him or if I should lay off. Mostly everybody in our grade ships the two of us, but the one problem is he has mentioned liking another girl. He only mentions her to me and not his other friends. I'm not sure if that's a sign.
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If your friend were interested in you as more than a friend, he would have been making the move. Since he didn't, keep in mind that if you do ask him to the dance, it will be as a friend. I think he probably will ask the other girl.
Do you want to ask him as a date or just friends?
You do not need to share your answer with me, but if you are asking him as more than a friend and he says no, the friendship could get weird and you have to know in your heart if you are OK if that happens and have a plan for how to handle that. If you are OK with that, go for it! Just follow your plan if the weirdness happens.
There is no right or wrong answer. It is all about you both and your feelings and how you want to proceed going forward.
Now if you are agreeing to just go as friends to have fun, go for it!
If you do like him mas more than a friend and he says no, please remember that that is just no today. Who knows what he will feel in the future. There are many boy girl friendships that when they are adults they marry. Some even get together 40-50-60 years later after they have been married and their spouse dies or they are divorced.
There are also lots of boy girl relationships where they are always friends and continue to be so as adults. I am blessed to have several of these type of friendships.
As long as everyone is on the same page of the intent, do what feels right to you!!
Post back how it goes!! Blessings!!
I know it's hard,BUT YOU CAN DO IT!, you guys are friends, while in a cheerful conversation and laughter just ask him! He will answer. If no,he has to learn what he is missing in a GREAT person like you!
Do you want to go as close friends or, do you like him more than a friend?
If you want to go as friends to the dance, it won't hurt to ask him. After all he's been a close friend since the 6th grade.
However, if you want to go as friends but have feelings for him that he isn't aware of then that is a different story.
There is no harm in asking him to the dance as a friend. You understand that he likes another girl but he still has not asked her out. Maybe this would be a great time for him to go to the dance and he could ask this girl to dance with him and see if she feels the same way as he does about him. Also it would be fun to go with a close friend to the dance.
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