My mom passed away in May and I'm 19 with 2 other siblings. We were told that we could have whatever belongs to our mother, but her boyfriend is taking it. Can he do that? He also said we couldn't get her Social Security until my little brother turned 18.
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Verbal agreements are hard to enforce in court. Thats why it is so important to have a written will. You can have survivors benefits if you are in high school full time until 19. I would make an appointment with social security. I would also contact the Legal Aid Society for a free lawyer to help you with getting possessions that your mother wanted to give you. Good luck.
Sorry about your mother!
Is there a relative or close friend of your mother who can help you to know what to do legally?
Call your local Social Security office and make an appointment. Bring all copies that you can of your siblings' birth certificates, school information etc. for your meeting.
Call the Legal Aid society in your area, explain that your mother's boyfriend has taken your mother's belongings and make an appointment with the attorney to discuss your rights and what you can do to have the boyfriend return your mother's belongings.
Good Luck!
When there is no will to name an executor, state law provides a list of people who are eligible to fill the role. If a probate court proceeding is necessary, the court will choose someone based on that priority list. Most states make the surviving spouse or registered domestic partner, if any, the first choice.
I am sorry this is happening to you but it is very good that you are questioning your rights as situations where there is no will can be very complicated.
You do not have to discuss this with anyone - gather your papers and go to the SS office ASAP as you may have already missed several months of benefits and they will not start any case until someone applies.
These are good answers. I'd like to add that if the boyfriend is not allowing him and his brother into the home, I would advise going to the police station, explaining the situation, and ask for an escort to get whatever items and papers he needs.
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