Dealing with an Abusive Spouse?
First off, redhatterb, sure, she can take some of the blame, but you were too harsh on her. You are judgemental, as most people tend to be, of abused women. Anastacia...you do not need to feel foolish asking for help. There are all forms of abuse, and you all...
Leaving an Abusive Husband?
Janis... So sorry to see you are going through all this repeatedly with him. First, I believe it would be best to go to the shelter. There are a lot of good shelters out there where you can rest and think. Its true, they will still go to their same school so...
Finding Free Furniture and Kitchen Items?
Go to freecycle.org and sign in for your state and town. They started out to keep things out of the landfill. People give away things instead of throwing them away... especially when they are moving for example, and cant take things with them.
Discount Satellite TV and Internet for Senior Citizens?
You can join freecycle and ask for a converter box. Thats how I was able to get mine. I am on disability and also was without tv after they converted it over. I asked for a converter box on freecycle, and received one! It was the second time i asked, but I...
Cool Neck When Throat Is Sore
Great tip! Im going to share it with my daughter. She is very much against using antibiotics with her sons, so she will like to try this tip, Im sure!
Organizing Clothes That Can Be Worn Again Before Washing?
I use one of those standing coat racks. It works wonderfully for that!
Cat Scratching His Neck?
Hi. Aaahh, poor little Kirby. My cat had the same problem, and it ended up that she had allergies. She would scratch herself raw and be miserable. She needed to get allergy shots, and it helped. Good luck
Storing Seasonal Vinyl Window Clings?
I put mine in one of those photo albums that have the clear covering that you lift up to put the pics in and seal back down.
Dealing With Back Pain?
Besides the exercise, I recommend heat from a rice sock. I have made these for myself and several other people. Just take a tube sock, fill it with rice, and tie the end in a knot. Then put it in the microwave for a couple minutes. Youll have to figure out...
Best Airtight Food Canisters for Dry Storage?
I use those large glass pickle jars to store my sugar and flour in. Im going to try to find more of them for pasta, etc. They have worked great for me so far!
Where Can I Find a Free Doughnut Cutter?
Have you heard of Freecycle? You can sign up for it in your area. They give away things to keep them out of the landfill. You can also request things you are looking for. Someone could have one sitting around, and when they see your request, offer it to you...
Where Can I Recycle Tires for Free?
I would offer them on freecycle.org and also on craigslist. Probably wont get rid of all 500, but anything would help, i would think. Also, one of the stipulations for freecycle is that they understand that they need to pick up. Good luck with that!
Where Can I Recycle Tires for Free?
Also, I was just thinking, maybe some playgrounds or parks could use them to make some structure for the kids to play on. Or maybe the spca for the dogs....
Selling or Donating Old Costume Jewelry?
One thing I have used them for is bingo gifts. I volunteer at shelters and church events. The jewelry makes wonderful gifts for the moms and daughters. I even have had a few boys get jewelry when they won, to give to their moms! :)
Assistance for Low Income Senior With Denture Expenses?
Look up Donated Dental and see if they are in your area. It could take awhile, because you are put on a waiting list. But my name finally came up, and I was blessed with a wonderful dentist, and got a full set of dentures.
Removing a Sticky Residue from Car Windows?
May sound weird, but I have used peanut butter to get labels off of jars that wouldnt come off.
Excessive Sweating?
My son used to have that problem, and the odor that came with it. It was very embarassing for him. I ended up taking him to the doctors, and they gave him a prescription for an anti-perspirant that helped him with the problem. Im sorry, I dont remember the...
Small Flies Are Driving Us Crazy?
I used the apple cider vinegar and a couple drops of dish soap in my kitchen, and was amazed at how well it worked. I was also horrified at how many were in there.
Motivating Myself to Clean and Organize?
Hi. I have that problem also. A lot of it has to do with all the pain I have, and also depression. So I do go in for counseling. I have found the best thing for me is to just tackle a little at a time. I used to be so overwhelmed with the whole job, and just...
Cleaning the Bathtub?
I use the mr clean magic reach, and I am very glad I bought it. It has a handle that you can change the length on. I have a lot of arthritis, and fibromyalgia that makes it very difficult for me to clean the tub too, with all the pain. This thing has made it...
Dealing with a Verbally Abusive Spouse?
Dear Melissa. I have been there myself. Trust me, you really do need to leave. What others have said is true, for yourself and your self-esteem, and for your daughters. I carry guilt i work on daily because it took me so long to leave, and the terrible toll...
Financial Liability for an Auto Accident?
First off, since your friend did not have insurance, the person she hits insurance will pay for the damage under what I believe is called uninsured motorist clause, or something like that. She probably will get points against her license, like the other person...
Accessing Slingo on New Computer?
I would just do a search for slingo. Youll probably come up with several sights you can play it for free or for a fee.
Advice for Quitting Smoking?
When I quit, I was smoking 2 1/2 - 3 packs a day. Let me say that it was not the first time I had tried to quit, but it was the time I succeeded! I actually went cold turkey, but if you cant go that way, then I agree about cutting back daily. But the best trick...
Home Remedy for Dry Feet?
Vaseline was going to be my suggestion too. Not only after bath, but at bedtime. Put a good amount on her feet, then put some sort of plastic (I have used saran wrap, plastic grocery bags, zipper storage bags, whatever) over them, and socks on top of that, to...
Online Game Sites?
A great game site I play at is www.Goldtoken.com . Its not a lot of trivia, but just about every game you can play against another player. Ive played against players all over the world on there, and its a really friendly community.
Boiling Pine Sol as Air Freshener?
I just heat cinnamon, cloves, allspice, spices like that, in a pot of water. I have a small pot that that is the only thing i use it for! It smells wonderful in the house. And you can buy those spices at the dollar store now, so it is very inexpensive.
Jewelry Organizing?
A great way to hang your earrings, especially if they are posts, is to just hang up a sheet of plastic canvas. It already has holes, and they are good sized, so its easy to put the earrings in, whether posts or hanging. Also, I have used one of those folding...
Dollar Store Freezer Bags vs the Name Brand?
I always buy the dollar store and store brand bags as well! A little trick I learned: after putting the food in the bag, zip it almost all the way up. Put a straw in the opening, and suck out the air. Then quickly pull out the straw and zip it up. No need to...
Sterilizing a Foot Soaking Spa?
I would use the hot soap and water also, then a good cleaning with bleach. Bleach is the best sterilizer.
Driving from Massachusetts to North Carolina?
When Ive traveled from virginia to south carolina, i went on route 17. Parts of it you will go through towns, so you have to slow down and/or stop for lights. I really prefer it, personally. If you need to stop for anything, its usually not far, and easy to...
Thrifty Apartment Decorating?
I was going to suggest freecycle as well. Just go to freecycle.org and click on your state, etc. Its a great source for items you need; furniture, decorations, etc. Also, if you have a Dollar Tree, Big Lots, Ollies, Building 19, any of those type of discount...
Garden: Gourds as Birdhouses
Hi. I made these before, and we didnt clean them out. You let the birds eat it, then they make their nest. The woman at the nursery where I got the gourds shared that with me.
Gooey Stickers off Glass?
Believe it or not, good old peanut butter works. Ive used it to remove many stickers, and the residue they leave.
Changing a Wedding Reception Location?
On top of however you decide to let them know, I would see if you can post a letter at the old place notifying people of the change.....just in case someone doesnt get the word! Say, if you decide to tell them at the wedding, maybe there would be someone who...
Drying Rose Petals?
You can buy silk rose petals in a bag. I have used them for crafting, and they work well. I buy them at the dollar tree here, so you can get them inexpensively. Even if you buy them at the craft store, which would cost more, it would still be less expensive...
Contributing to Your Child's Wedding?
I agree with what others have said, that since this is a renewal, no one is responsible for the financial part but the couple. I dont want to bash the wife, but I feel that is childish that she isnt wearing her ring or changing her name until then. How does...
Black Marks on Walls?
It does sound like mold. I lived in an apartment in Virginia, and had that black on walls in almost every room. It was behind furniture, so I didnt realize it until I pulled my couch out to clean good. Anyway, everyone we checked with said to clean with bleach...
Games for a Coed Baby Shower?
We also did the dont say the name game, but made little necklaces out of ribbon, and put plastic baby items, like pacifiers, bottles, etc on them. You can get some different baby foods and have people guess which they are by either just looking at them, or...
Internet Working Even Though I am Not Signed Up for Service?
You are picking up from a neighbor. I lived in an apartment, and neighbors in another apartment realized they were getting internet on their laptop whenever i was connected on my computer.
Collecting Advertising Credit Cards?
Thats what I was going to say. I give them to my grandkids and they love playing with them. Ive also given them little wallets to hold them in. They feel all grown up!
Organizing Hair Accessories?
I received one of those shelves that are used over the back of your kitchen sink from freecycle. I decided to use it in my bathroom instead. It has drawers in it, so I have elastics in one, barettes in another, etc. It really works out well.
Craft Ideas for Small Ivy Bowls?
I have made nice candles with them. Cut out images from wrapping paper, napkins, paper towels, etc. I mix any sort of glue...elmers, generic,....and mix it with water. Then I decoupage the pictures on the inside of the bowl. Just brush the glue mixture onto...
Fax Number for an All-in-One Printer?
I just use my home phone number. Just have the person let you know when they are sending the fax, and dont answer the phone. It will go to the fax.
Winterizing Windows?
I heard that you can use bubble wrap, instead of the plastic that they sell. Several people said it really worked well, and they recommend the larger bubbles.
Craft Project: Advent Paper Chain
This is a great idea! But, Im wondering what is printed on the white chain link. Thanks!
Ideas for Unused Christmas Gifts?
How about using them for birthday gifts for the person you bought each gift for?
Washable Cloth Nappies
Hi Ruth. This is wonderful! I wonder if I might also get the patterns, etc. for this. I dont have much experience sewing either, but recently got a sewing machine so that I can start. I have 6 grandbabies now, and who know how many more will come, between my...
Flat Tennis Ball?
I know teachers use them to put on the feet of chairs to keep the noice/scratching down when chairs are moved.
Suggestions For Dealing With Sleep Apnea?
Hi. I have sleep apnea also. Im wondering if maybe you need the dr to adjust the setting on your cpap. I hope you figure it out!
Ideas For Saving Old Greeting Cards?
I craft with groups of kids/families at shelters, church functions, etc. I use the cards alot...Im always asking people to save them for me. One of the things that everyone enjoys is to make placemats out of them. I cut out the main picture of the cards (sometimes...
Jesus Invitation Email?
hi i did a search and found His birthday invitation. its at -- http://www.stlmcfm.org/jesus_birthday_invite.htm i hope this is what you were thinking of! be blessed della
Crafts Made With Small Mirrors?
Hi Vickie I have made frames from them with groups of kids before. Just remove part of the backing in the center. I was able to use fingernail polish remover for mine. If that doesnt work, you can buy the silver remover at craft stores, and possibly hardware...
