Kitchen Cabinet and Wall Paint Color Advice?
Personally, I would paint the cabinets white like you were thinking. Id replace the wallpaper with different wallpaper- white, with small or a delicate floral pattern with a similar green (possibly a shade or two lighter). Maybe even an ivy pattern. Repaint...
Living Room Curtain Color Advice?
What color is your ceiling? I would go with sheer panels matching that. (It looks like a light shade of gray in the picture). If it is gray, then maybe sheer white with a second sheer outside panel of the same gray.
Social Security and Child Support?
See if you can have SS put a hold or freeze on payment to child support. Find out where you are supposed to file for child support from- with California or with Colorado, then re-apply if need be. Contact SS and provide them with the correct information. You...